{"id":1126,"date":"2013-11-04T23:01:22","date_gmt":"2013-11-04T23:01:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.com\/?p=1126"},"modified":"2013-11-04T23:01:22","modified_gmt":"2013-11-04T23:01:22","slug":"dreams-kid-tested-and-mother-approved","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/?p=1126","title":{"rendered":"Dreams: Kid-tested &#038; Mother-Approved"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Things simply are not the way they used to be.<\/p>\n<p>I realize that opening line could be used as evidence that I\u2019m getting older.\u00a0 Hang with me, dear readers, because by the end of this blog, I think you will see that I am definitely still young in spirit.\u00a0 However, the Christmases of\u00a0days gone by are no longer with me. (Wait a minute \u2013 don\u2019t tune out yet. I am not a merchant who is putting up tinseled trees before the turkey is carved. In fact, my favorite part of Christmas now is holding candles with my family while hearing verses and singing hymns.)\u00a0 Yet, like a song from my elementary years, \u201c<i>Video Killed the Radio Star<\/i>\u201d, technology has intoned the death bell\u00a0for my\u00a0most nostalgic pastime of childhood Christmases.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>The arrival of the Montgomery Ward Christmas catalog!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Oh, the hours I would dream!\u00a0 Perusing each and every page, often with my little brother at my side, we would wish and hope for all types of gems and treasures.\u00a0 Years ago I wrote about the Bye Lo Baby that I wished and waited for two years to receive.\u00a0 Looking at those glossy pages was something I remember fondly, but other than a few specialty ones, my children live in a world where they don\u2019t know the jubilation of the arrival of the toy catalog.<\/p>\n<p>Still a true kid at heart (and one who desires to be childlike in her faith daily), I have had to resort to dragging my children to toy stores for nefarious reasons \u2013 just to see what is new in the toy world. The experience is no catalog dream fest, but it is the closest thing I have found as a substitute. To be honest, we don\u2019t need any toys; so, my trip is rarely about buying anything.\u00a0 No!\u00a0 Those aisles are portals back to innocent days of long ago where I can imagine playing with each item that brings a smile.<\/p>\n<p>So it was on a particularly amazing weekend, I found myself and my curly-headed bundle of energy marching through the aisles of a Toys-R-Us.\u00a0 Just like her mom years ago, the Lego aisle was among our stops.\u00a0 She has found\u00a0enjoyment with\u00a0the new Lego Friends sets designed for girls. (As a science and math teacher, I will interject that they are just as awesome as the \u201cboy\u201d Legos, and I love how one set has a tiny blackboard emblazoned with a geometry problem. Yay!)<\/p>\n<p>Looking to see what new sets were available for her visions of sugar plums, my eyes fell upon the new Heartlake High.\u00a0 What happened next probably stunned all shoppers in the vicinity as well as perhaps scarred my mini-me for life.\u00a0 Yep \u2013 right there in the store \u2013 I let out a yelp of exhilaration!<\/p>\n<p>These Lego sets are built on the fundamental idea that girls are relational and as more sets are created, more characters to Heartlake City are added to the story. That\u2019s my girl\u2019s favorite part \u2013 checking to see if she has that character yet. Well, if you are going to build a high school, you need a teacher, and much to my delight, there she was &#8211; the high school teacher, Ms. Stevens, who looks an awful lot like me.\u00a0 Now, dancing for joy, I was prancing around singing, \u201cOh yeah, I am a Lego!\u201d repetitively.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.files.wordpress.com\/2013\/11\/lego-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1127\" alt=\"Lego 1\" src=\"http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.files.wordpress.com\/2013\/11\/lego-1.jpg\" width=\"497\" height=\"662\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/lego-1.jpg 1944w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/lego-1-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/lego-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/lego-1-624x832.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 497px) 100vw, 497px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>When I flipped the box over and saw that she appears to be a science teacher complete with telescope (I have one of those) and an owl in her classroom (Are you kidding me?\u00a0 For years I had a snowy owl in mine!).\u00a0 Tears flowed down my cheeks. At this point, imagine my husband\u2019s shock, when I brought the box to him (still teary-eyed) saying, \u201cMy life is complete! I&#8217;m a Lego!\u201d Normally, he is the giant kid in our household; so, I think my effusive gushing caught him off guard.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.files.wordpress.com\/2013\/11\/lego-2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1128\" alt=\"Lego 2\" src=\"http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.files.wordpress.com\/2013\/11\/lego-2.jpg\" width=\"497\" height=\"372\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/lego-2.jpg 2592w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/lego-2-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/lego-2-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/lego-2-624x468.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 497px) 100vw, 497px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><i>Hold your horses! Aren\u2019t you married?<\/i> Well, yes sirs and ma\u2019ams, I am. During my first year of teaching at the junior high\/high school level, much to the chagrin of one of my colleagues, the students started calling me, Ms. Stevens.\u00a0 I had several who struggled with speech issues, and Miz Stevens was much easier to pronounce than Missus Stevens.\u00a0 It just stuck.\u00a0 To this day, I am still greeted as Ms. Stevens all over in the community.<\/p>\n<p>For the skeptics still among us, I want you to know about another set of Legos that sits upon my dresser.\u00a0 One Mother\u2019s Day not that long ago, my sweet boy wrote to the company and told them the story about his brother, Reed.\u00a0 He asked if they would create a Reed figure for his mom for Mother\u2019s Day, because she <span style=\"text-decoration:underline;\"><strong><em>LOVE<\/em><em>S<\/em><\/strong><\/span> Legos.\u00a0 They contacted him and said that they don\u2019t normally fill those types of requests, but asked nonetheless for a picture of him and his brother.\u00a0 A few weeks, later, these two boys arrived in the mail.\u00a0 One of the Best Mother\u2019s Day\u2019s presents ever.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.files.wordpress.com\/2013\/11\/lego-3.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1129\" alt=\"Lego 3\" src=\"http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.files.wordpress.com\/2013\/11\/lego-3.jpg\" width=\"497\" height=\"372\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/lego-3.jpg 2592w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/lego-3-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/lego-3-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/11\/lego-3-624x468.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 497px) 100vw, 497px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Christmas has definitely changed, and I am going to have to accept that. At least dreaming remains the same &#8211; for kiddos and for mommas. Even though my catalog days have come and gone, I know one momma (I mean, sweet little girl) who will be dreaming of getting a Ms. Stevens for Christmas this year!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Things simply are not the way they used to be. 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