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I think you are exactly the way God made you to be to look for those in the world who need to be loved, who need to be included, who need a friend, who need someone to speak up for them, and who need a safe place to land. Because in the last sixteen years, I have seen you do these things many different times. Fearless is a part of your DNA. Watching the video where you ran out of your room, down the hall, through the kitchen and then slid through the dining room was just the icing on the cake of my fearless theory. You didn\u2019t just show us your amazing stunt woman skills once or twice, but over and over. Even after you wiped out once, you got up, shook yourself off and showed us again. Fearless! Totally fearless!<\/p>\n Of course as your not-so-fearless momma, I have cringed more than once when your adventures have gotten you into scrapes (especially the time when you climbed the dog kennel fence, fell down, and had a pebble lodged in your nose until \u201cit festered its way out\u201d). For the record, it took more than a month before the rock came out and equally as long for the scab to go away.<\/p>\n Every word is true. I am NOT making this stuff up.<\/p><\/div>\n But what I think very few people know about your fearless heart is that you are not afraid to go your own way, even when no one else is doing it. A quick look at the end of a basketball game, and you will see most of your teammates go and shake the referees\u2019 hands. It wasn\u2019t always that way, but you started doing it in the fourth grade and the trend caught on. Classy, trendsetting and fearless!<\/p>\n Bucking the norm, one year for Halloween, you created your very own superhero: Super Organ Donation Girl. Mostly you wanted to explain and honor the priceless gift your brother gave, but you never once batted an eyelash when adults asked you \u201cWhat are you?\u201d that evening. Not settling for being like everyone else, even if some people thought it was weird takes courage. And you, my fearless girl, have got that down!<\/p>\n But something about a fearless heart is that others don\u2019t see all that goes on behind the scenes of life. Recently you did something that will forever take my breath away. Coming into the recovery room to finally see you after the agonizing wait during your most recent surgery, we knew the bad news. When we asked if you knew what had occurred, you told us you could see the clock and you knew from the long elapsed timeframe. I braced myself for tears and sadness (which, trust me, you had every right to express), but I could have never prepared myself for what actually happened. You looked me in the eye and asked if you could write your donor\u2019s family a letter thanking them. Most people don\u2019t even think of it, but you knew the gift and you wanted the family to know how much it meant. Your amazing, kind, loving heart wanted to give back even when you were at what some would consider a very low moment in your life. Brave and fearless!<\/p>\n Even though I am not as fearless as you are, one thing we do share in common is our love for children. I used to love to sit outside your bedroom when you played school and would use extra sheets from your own class, completing each page purposefully with mistakes. I would have to stifle my giggles when you would tell one of the dolly pupils \u201cto go back and recheck number 5\u201d. It was adorable and precious and a girl after your momma\u2019s heart. <\/em><\/strong>Over the years, you have babysat as many children as you wear the number on your basketball jersey, and to see the love that radiated through them today says that your fearless heart touches the lives of others in immeasurable ways. A precious video wake-up message showed all the love in the world, especially when \u201cHappy Birth-day Erin\u201d was morphed into \u201cHappy Erin\u201d! Later, a specially tailored rendition of the birthday song from a favorite cutie had you grinning from ear to ear. Throughout the morning watching all the surprises for \u201cHappy Birthday\u201d planned as \u201cHappy Mummy Day\u201d because those little girls believe that you will grow up to be a great \u201cmummy\u201d someday . . . melted my heart. And you know what? I agree with them all one hundred percent<\/em>. They love you, and so do I. Some day you will be a fabulous teacher and an amazing momma (mummy), and probably one who doesn\u2019t let fear stand in her way. Just don\u2019t be surprised one day when you see your daughter climbing the fence and letting go. But who knows? For one millisecond, she might fly just like her momma!<\/p>\n So we wish all these greetings today:\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n Happy Birthday, Sister!<\/em><\/p>\n Happy Golden Birthday (16 on the 16th<\/sup>)!<\/em><\/p>\n Happy Sweet 16!<\/em><\/p>\n Happy Mummy Day! <\/em><\/p>\n or my new personal favorite, Happy Erin! <\/em><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a>