{"id":548,"date":"2012-11-06T16:18:53","date_gmt":"2012-11-06T16:18:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.com\/?p=548"},"modified":"2012-11-06T16:18:53","modified_gmt":"2012-11-06T16:18:53","slug":"voting-matters-even-to-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/?p=548","title":{"rendered":"Voting matters . . . even to kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.files.wordpress.com\/2012\/11\/kids-vote.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-550 alignleft\" title=\"kids vote\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.files.wordpress.com\/2012\/11\/kids-vote.jpg\" height=\"202\" width=\"200\" \/><\/a>There are many things in life, good and bad, that our children learn from watching us.\u00a0 On the good end of the spectrum, one of the things I have hoped to model for my children is the awesome privilege it is to exercise our right to vote in America.\u00a0 Since they were born, my kiddos have been carted to voting booths in car seats, in near blizzards, uphill both ways.\u00a0 (Okay the last part was a bit of an exaggeration, but car seats and blustery conditions are not.)<\/p>\n<p>Not all experiences even in a country as great as ours are innate.\u00a0 Just like the mourning doves each summer in my backyard teach their offspring, we need to model for our children the voting process.\u00a0 Hence the reason that I have taken my kids along every time I vote.\u00a0 Is it convenient? No.\u00a0 Is it easy? No.\u00a0 Would I rather go to the polling place by myself? Not in a million years!<\/p>\n<p>My kiddos have come to expect that during election season that we will talk about the candidates and what they represent.\u00a0 Then on voting day, we find a table (or sometimes the floor where we can be away from the crowd), and I read each and every word on the ballot.\u00a0 We then discuss which candidate for whom we are going to vote.\u00a0 Then we (well, actually I) mark the ballot.\u00a0 When we are done discussing and marking the ballot, we cast our official ballot (which has evolved over the years as technology has\u00a0changed).<\/p>\n<p>Even when we moved away from the Marshall area briefly, we exercised our right to vote using the absentee ballot system.\u00a0 (My kids were crushed when they could not go to the polling place and when they didn\u2019t receive an \u201cI voted\u201d sticker by mail.)\u00a0 It was then that I realized that\u00a0my goal of\u00a0 trying to teach my children about the election process and civic responsibilities that they \u201cgot it\u201d.\u00a0 They understood the importance of voting, and it mattered to them that I take them along.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, I have strong convictions about my voting and making my vote count, and I also have friends in just about every political ideology group possible. Voting with my children isn\u2019t indoctrination; it\u2019s an educational opportunity. I vote very differently from my parents and siblings, and someday there is a good chance my children will do the same.\u00a0 And I am okay with that.\u00a0 In fact, my tenth grade son created his own political t-shirt for Election Day espousing his \u201cvote\u201d for Jimmy McMillan for President \u2013 because \u201cThe Rent is still too\u00a0high\u201d.\u00a0 \u00a0He did it to be silly, but sometimes in a world of incredibly mean-spirited attack ads some levity is needed. At the end of the day, I know where his actual vote would be cast, but I didn\u2019t impede his freedom of expression today.<\/p>\n<p>Voting matters \u2013 even to our kids! So if you haven\u2019t had a chance to make it to the polls today.\u00a0 I really encourage you to do so, and if you have kids under the age of 18, I HIGHLY encourage you to take them along.\u00a0 You might get a few stares (like I did this morning with 3 kids in tow waiting in line at 6:50 AM\u00a0for my ward\u2019s polling place to open), but you never know, you might get a few smiles from those that see a family voting together.<\/p>\n<p>God Bless America!\u00a0 God Bless You! And, please vote today!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are many things in life, good and bad, that our children learn from watching us.\u00a0 On the good end of the spectrum, one of the things I have hoped to model for my children is the awesome privilege it is to exercise our right to vote in America.\u00a0 Since they were born, my kiddos [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[30,180,181,1013,336,485,486,646],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=548"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/548\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=548"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=548"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=548"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}