{"id":959,"date":"2013-06-28T16:34:18","date_gmt":"2013-06-28T16:34:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.com\/?p=959"},"modified":"2013-06-28T16:34:18","modified_gmt":"2013-06-28T16:34:18","slug":"i-saw-god-at-the-prom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/?p=959","title":{"rendered":"I saw God at the prom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The jokes of blue tuxes, boot casts for shoes, and forgetting the corsage were staples around our house leading up to the first prom for our son.\u00a0 A little good natured ribbing is a part of the fabric that makes up our family; so the jokes were just the norm.\u00a0 As the mother of the\u00a0young man\u00a0in the couple, my traditional role was to help pay for\u00a0the tux (which after seeing the final bill made me think that creating one out of duct tape might not have been a bad idea after all).\u00a0 As shared in a previous blog, my gift of love for the young couple was to make them a coursed meal from scratch.\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.com\/2013\/04\/30\/one-tired-momma-and-lots-of-fun\/\">http:\/\/kandynolesstevens.com\/2013\/04\/30\/one-tired-momma-and-lots-of-fun\/<\/a>\u00a0While definitely a labor of love, it was worth every scrumptious bite.<\/p>\n<p>This was the first prom for both Sawyer and Rachel, but given their big hearts, it definitely was one to remember.\u00a0 It all began much earlier as our sweet kids decided that they wanted to invite a friend of Reed\u2019s to the prom.\u00a0 (This would have been Reed\u2019s senior prom, and thus, it would have been for B as well.\u00a0 I think the video the kids made tells that story better than I ever could.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"625\" height=\"469\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Df5pAZrzDhQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>What they don\u2019t tell you in the video is that Sawyer was just released from the hospital having his 7<sup>th<\/sup> surgery since the bus crash; hence, the jokes about the boot cast.\u00a0 From that moment on, those two kids made sure that every decision they made was to honor Brayden.\u00a0 In their minds, it was his last prom, and they still a chance to attend more.\u00a0 They kept his family in the loop for tuxes and colors, bought two boutonnieres, and found the perfect vehicle to attend the drive-up (which was totally foreign to this momma).\u00a0 A lot about prom in Minnesota was different than the proms I attended in Florida. While other kids arrived in muscle cars, decked out trucks, or vintage roadsters, the awesome trio arrived in a fully equipped motorhome so that Brayden would be able to arrive in comfort.<\/p>\n<p>They put a lot of thought into their entrance, recruiting a couple little girls (one sister and one friend) to carry a banner that said \u201cLive a Life of Love\u201d as the RV pulled up to the red carpet.\u00a0 They entered as a trio after Brayden and his wheelchair were\u00a0sashayed down the ramp from the camper.\u00a0 The three marched through Grand March, and, at least from the three families involved, there wasn\u2019t a dry eye among us when Brayden had the biggest smile on his face at the photo stops.\u00a0 He knew that he was the Prince of the Ball, and no one could\u00a0deny it. It is a good thing that B loves lights because his paparazzi rivaled that of a celebrity on that night!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/prom-night-2-e1372437070437.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-960\" alt=\"prom night 2\" src=\"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/prom-night-2-e1372437070437.jpg\" width=\"497\" height=\"372\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/prom-night-2-e1372437070437.jpg 2592w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/prom-night-2-e1372437070437-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/prom-night-2-e1372437070437-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/prom-night-2-e1372437070437-624x468.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 497px) 100vw, 497px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>At one point, Reed\u2019s best girl friend came running over and wanted to make sure that the four of them were in a picture together.\u00a0 It was hard to keep the tears in, because in my heart I knew that if Reed were here, it would have been all five of them in the picture as I am certain that young lady would have been his date.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/prom-night-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-961\" alt=\"prom night 1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/prom-night-1.jpg\" width=\"497\" height=\"372\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/prom-night-1.jpg 2592w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/prom-night-1-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/prom-night-1-1024x768.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/prom-night-1-624x468.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 497px) 100vw, 497px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Although not the typical start of the prom, we all waited to watch Brayden\u2019s first dance because he wouldn\u2019t be staying much longer.\u00a0 After cooling off for a while outside, B and his entourage (parents, grandparents,\u00a0siblings, friends, workers) went inside to find Sawyer waiting for his arrival with\u00a0a quick thumbs up.\u00a0\u00a0He wheeled Brayden out to the floor, only to discover that Rachel had stepped away to visit her friends.<\/p>\n<p>What could have been an odd moment was completely changed as Reed and Brayden\u2019s classmates: girls first, followed by the boys, surrounded\u00a0both\u00a0young men\u00a0on the dance floor. That magical moment\u00a0 is one I\u00a0will never\u00a0forget\u00a0as the whole group all danced together with the Beau of the Ball.<\/p>\n<p>Huge tears streaked down my cheeks as I witnessed quite possibly the most, tender moment &#8211; EVER.\u00a0 Originally, I had been a little uncomfortable peeking in at that time-honored moment of teenage revelry because I felt they deserved their privacy, but I am so glad I pushed past my comfort zone of Southern tradition.<\/p>\n<p>Because if I hadn\u2019t stayed,<strong> I would have missed seeing God\u2019s love at the prom<\/strong>. A love that shone brightly through the gift of one amazing friend who blessed us all!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The jokes of blue tuxes, boot casts for shoes, and forgetting the corsage were staples around our house leading up to the first prom for our son.\u00a0 A little good natured ribbing is a part of the fabric that makes up our family; so the jokes were just the norm.\u00a0 As the mother of the\u00a0young [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[120,254,283,312,380,433,497,616,656],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/959"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=959"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/959\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=959"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=959"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.realsweetgrace.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=959"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}